Can we all agree that
life sucks
sometimes?


There is nothing worse than seeing someone you care about going through a hard time and feeling like there’s nothing you can do to make things better.

You want to help.

You want to support them.

Nothing matters more to you than being there when they need you.

 

But you've never felt so helpless. 

 

How many times have you said to them, "I wish I could do it for you"?

Deep down you know they have to do it themselves.

But you really really want things to turn out well, or at least better than what it was. 

What if you could actually do something to help instead of standing by? 

What if you could show support towards people you care about even when you’re not there

What if you didn’t have to be the punching bag or a shoulder to cry on for once because the people you care about felt okay today? 

What if the people you love didn’t have to feel stuck or afraid to speak anymore? What if they could show up and been seen for who they are? 

 

What if it was up to you?

Here, at Aging Courageously, we believe how we communicate what is going on in our lives, AND to whom, directly relates to the quality of experiences we have. 

That’s why we’ve come up with an approach to conversations that directly positions someone to say exactly what they need to say to the people that need to hear it. 

When things are going well, we aren’t worried about what we’re saying or how people feel, because things are going well. 

BUT, when the going gets tough, the first thing to go is our words. Have you heard someone say: 

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“I’m afraid to say something.”

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“I feel stuck by words. I have no idea what to say.”

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“They don't understand what I'm saying.”

Or wonder:

  

"How do I even start a conversation about that?"

"How do I end the conversation?"  

It’s not that we don’t know how to speak or have words, it’s understanding when to use them when things aren’t going well.

 

We've built a virtual guide to help people know exactly what to say when they feel hurt.

And we are giving YOU, the person they come to for help, the chance to give them something that will actually make things better.

Click here to give it to them right now

Here's how it works: 

  1. Choose someone on your mind lately that you want to help. Someone you know that is having a hard time. 
  2. Enter their email when purchasing the Virtual Guide What to Say. 
  3. Gift What to Say directly to their inbox and enjoy being seen showing up to help.



Here's what's included:

  • Instant access to the Virtual Guide upon receiving the email
  • Full length 40 minute course

  • 2 Fillable templates

  • 4 Full Length Pages of Scripts and Best Practices 

  • 4 Printable graphics

 

 

What to Say is an easy and direct way to show support for the people you care about while helping them help themselves as soon as something goes wrong. 

Click here to get it for them

But really, how can you help them?

It’s not that you haven’t tried helping. 

You just sometimes feel that you’re only making things worse. 

You’ve thought, “Why am I so bad at this?” or “That wasn’t my intention.”

“They just keep getting mad at me, no matter what I do.” 

“I sound so stupid.” 

It’s hard. This is hard.

But how many times have you tried something that doesn’t actually change anything? Like making them a pump up playlist or buying them a cookie? 

The thing is those kinds of help don’t actually help them change anything about what’s happening. It just helps them keep enduring it until something else resolves the situation. 

Instead, you can give them something that puts them in the driver seat of their own experience. This is literally something they can watch and an hour later use to communicate what they need and be heard so that the situation changes NOW. Not later. 

If you have ever felt helpless when someone you care about is going through a hard time … This virtual guide is for you. Not just anybody….

YOU. 

By next week, you could actually call them and feel good after talking to them (instead of listening to them vent again).

In two weeks, 

In four months, 

In one year, imagine what they could do.  

All it takes is your help right now.  

Click here to buy What to Say for them right now

This is what you can give them: 

“I feel liberated by finally knowing what to say and how to say it.”

“This is amazing, it’s like an upper-level English course that applies words to real life situations.”

“Thank you! My spirit feels lifted after working through the course.” 

“This is so good. It builds on what we already know and actually makes a difference.” 

Here's how it works: 

  1. Choose someone on your mind lately that you want to help. Someone you observe having a hard time with the people around them. 
  2. Enter their email when purchasing the Virtual Guide What to Say. 
  3. Gift What to Say directly to their inbox and enjoy being seen showing up to help.

You are in a position to help.   

Buy them What to Say now
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